Romans 12:3? KJV
God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.
Yet by reaching out to Jesus with the measure of faith to follow Him we become one with Him.
1 John 4:13 NKJV
By this we know that we abide in Him, and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit.
We become born again and Jesus abides in us and us in Him.
As we realize who we are in Christ, the hurts and hangups fall away. We know who we are and that we are no longer who we used to be. We now identify with Christ and not with our old self.
2 Corinthians 5:21 NKJV
For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.
We walk in the righteousness of Christ. He leads and we follow. One decision changes us completely.